Feb 16, 2022
A listener asks a question about ‘changing the story in your
head about a horse…and knowing when it's time to move
on.’
Often times, the story we have in our head is a mixture of fact and
story. Separating out the facts is useful. Pretending the facts
don’t exist, so we can pretend to have a different story, is not
useful.
It IS natural to have one story about a horse that does change over
time in a healthy way.
The phrase ‘not the right fit for me’ is also used, which could
point toward several things, including the idea of a horse
‘fitting’ you or having a temperament that you enjoy in a similar
way as your best friend.
Finally, I bring up the way that I would approach looking at this
question if I were exploring it myself.