Jan 11, 2023
Are you confused about how to make your dream into a goal?
If you are, you are not alone. This is especially common with riders who have relationship type goals.
_To form the bond I have always dreamed of.
_I dream of having a connection with him….
_To do anything on my horse with more confidence, and just have fun_
Relationship isn’t WHAT you do…its how you handle the questions or challenge that come up.
SO LET’S THINK OF THIS BACKWARDS FOR A MOMENT.
If you desire to: “To form the bond I have always dreamed of.”
What would you DO…if you had that bond?
Would you go gallop down a trail?
Haul to the mountains and go camping?
If you: “dream of having a connection with him…._”
What would you go DO…if you had that connection?
Would ride through the countryside to visit a friend? Would you go on a cattle drive?
If you could snap your fingers…and instantly know that you
could: “do anything on my horse with more confidence, and just have
What would you go DO?
Would you enter a show?
Maybe try reining or dressage or jumping?
If you had a better connection WITH your horse…what would you go do?
What if you have it backward?
What if the goal is what helps you develop the relationship?